FRONTING according to the urban dictionary means :
A facade. Appearing one way, but really acting another. Misrepresnting yourself.
*yeah right, its an english word. Not just pigin….. Guess you are wondering how many more words like that exist???*
Here is the flesh of the matter, how long should the fronting last??
As a girl being asked out by guy, how long will you wait to say ‘yes’…
1day, week, month or even years…. *yeah right , some actually do years o*
Some feel they’ll be seen as ‘cheap’ if they accept too soon….
Some say it depends on how long you’ve known the guy and if you do like him, got a couple of views from friends,
“If we were friends before, I won’t waste too much time o, like 3 weeks” said Miss X…
Another person said “friends or no friends, it shouldn’t exceed a month, if it does, then you were never sure of what you wanted”. *really….lips sealed*
For the guys, how long can you wait?? I know a dude who once said. “mehn she better not let me wait too long o, 3-4 weeks tops, if not, the initial ginger and ‘love’ will start dropping” *eehhhnnn*
Another said he asked the babe out for about 3weeks before she agreed, and he really is not the patient type, so who know what would have happened if she made him wait longer……..
3weeks is like the ‘in thing’ now o.. Do u agree with them?
Is the fronting period the time to get to know the dude better or what? If it is, then what’s the point of dating?
Its not like its a marriage proposal na..
Personally, I really would love to ………emm ….. hear what your views are. *u were expecting my own views right??*
Anyways I’m down for not wasting too much time, especially if you’ve been friends for long and like the guy, you might secretly have been wanting him to ask you since..so….
“Life doesn’t have to be so difficult you know” a friend of mine always says….*winks*