The Fronting Phase……. How long???

    1. FRONTING according to the urban dictionary means :

      A facade. Appearing one way, but really acting another. Misrepresnting yourself.

      *yeah right, its an english word. Not just pigin….. Guess you are wondering how many more words like that exist???*

      Here is the flesh of the matter, how long should the fronting last??
      As a girl being asked out by guy, how long will you wait to say ‘yes’…
      1day, week, month or even years…. *yeah right , some actually do years o*

      Some feel they’ll be seen as ‘cheap’ if they accept too soon….
      Some say it depends on how long you’ve known the guy and if you do like him, got a couple of views from friends,

      “If we were friends before, I won’t waste too much time o, like 3 weeks” said Miss X…
      Another person said “friends or no friends, it shouldn’t exceed a month, if it does, then you were never sure of what you wanted”. *really….lips sealed*

      For the guys, how long can you wait?? I know a dude who once said. “mehn she better not let me wait too long o, 3-4 weeks tops, if not, the initial ginger and ‘love’ will start dropping” *eehhhnnn*

      Another said he asked the babe out for about 3weeks before she agreed, and he really is not the patient type, so who know what would have happened if she made him wait longer……..

      3weeks is like the ‘in thing’ now o.. Do u agree with them?
      Is the fronting period the time to get to know the dude better or what? If it is, then what’s the point of dating?
      Its not like its a marriage proposal na..

      Personally, I really would love to ………emm ….. hear what your views are. *u were expecting my own views right??*
      Anyways I’m down for not wasting too much time, especially if you’ve been friends for long and like the guy, you might secretly have been wanting him to ask you….

      “Life doesn’t have to be so difficult you know” a friend of mine always says….*winks*


  • 24 thoughts on “The Fronting Phase……. How long???

    1. Rute says:

      We humanz jzt complicate tinz most tymz….if u lyk a guy n he lykz u ryt back wtz d frontn 4 nw….pple dnt wait around 4eva,sumtymz we myt even front n lose our soulmatez….well I m soooooo against d tym wastn..if he rilly lykd u in d 1st place he wldnt c u as cheap

    2. Adeyekun Michael aka Just Call me BO$$ says:

      I’ll recommend a book for everyone to read based on this topic…it’s ‘ HOW TO CHOOSE A LIFE PARTNER’ by Pastor Bimbo Odukoya. You’ll enjoy it.

    3. MWHY says:

      Ds situation is lyk Hooke’s Law (F=kx)…F is Frontin, k is a “supposed constant” which is d feelings & x is level of disappointment…so d mor d girl fronts, d mor disappointed d guy is but he can stil tak d disappointment…now as in Hooke’s law where we av d elastic limit, we also av d “disappointment limit” where d girl fronts so much DAT “x” exceeds ds limit & d guy gets so disappointed DAT it brings d feelings “k” down (i.e K=1/x)…”K” is supposed 2b a constant but wen U̶̲̥̅̊ exceed “x”, bad bad tins happen…so U̶̲̥̅̊ c, its kul 2 front cuz its lyk a test of d feelings he has but its damn bad 2 overdo it.

    4. Derz no principle 2 ds coz d 1 u myt front ol ur life 4 myt nt even b d mr. Ryt and dt 1 u tot u were cheap 4, cud jst b d 1.. So babes, ff ur heart…

    5. †ђε̲̣̣̣̥ fronting stuff is kinda allowed cos, it gives †ђε̲̣̣̣̥ gal time 2 know who †ђε̲̣̣̣̥ guy rili is, but still yet, if u rili love †ђε̲̣̣̣̥ guy, it shouldn’t tk u S̶̲̥̅̊ø̲̣̣̥ much time 2 find out what u rili need 2 know abt him. S̶̲̥̅̊ø̲̣̣̥ a few weeks is okay 2 decide if u rili wanna be wit him or not

    6. HOUSE M.D says:

      guys I feel if a gal kepps posting u while u are still doing the fronting she is trying to weigh her options over u and some other guys fronting as well abi u tink say na only u dey see d gal say she fine, other guys are also fronting as well so keep fronting u can be lucky one day don’t consider the time factor. After all in fertilization about 300 million sperm cells are released into a woman but only one will finally fertilize her what happened to the rest so bone every and keep fronting u might be da lucky spermatocyte that will finally fertilize the oocyte…

    7. Peee says:

      Hmmm, quite a topic. Life doesn’t have 2 be difficult buh it still gets 2 be @ times so we gotta face it…. Me? I’m all down for front as long as possible oh. As long as months, e fit reach year sef! If he’s serious he’ll wait. If he is Mr. Impatient then he wasn’t really serious in d 1st place nd doesn’t deserve me. Simple. Nd dis is irrespective of wether I like, liked, trying to like u or not. Pls come on! Dat fronting period is fun na!!! All dat attention, can’t risk letting go of it too soon.

    8. joan Deron says:

      As a girl, if u like him already, he asks you out and you know u wud definitely say yes; why waste so much time….. Cos if eventually u tk ur time…d positive reply may just be coming in really late…den wat apens?????

    9. Segun says:

      There’s no point wasting each others time wen d chemistry is already there but might be necessary in some other conditions

    10. Omri says:

      Personally….am not d “ask her out” kinda guy….in fact y should I…dis talk abt me waiting for a girl to gimme her reply is pretty backwards………..”They r waiting for me”….yes o..I cnt shout *coughs*….when I’m with a chick,…*girl wit an average I.Q @least*….its easy to tell when she wants me,u shouldn’t say she’s hiding her feelings…dts crap,I knw wats there,and wat can be there…ion chase after ghosts…..that’s my way of saying….#Don’t Ask her out….just freaking kiss her and take her out#……..#Omri

        1. Omri says:

          Babe…truth is,we need each oda… let no girl feel like she’s got somfin to offer dt cannot be found elsewhere…..I dnt fink a girl in her right senses would take 1week to give her answer,its jst purely immature except in d case where he is a total stranger…….bt a yes/no is as easy to say as it is to spell….coz d worst case scenario is a NO…then he moves on….its nt dt complicated,but most girls just wanna have a handful of toasters….both d ones in d NO category and d Yes category for d ‘Fun’ of it…..So NO NO NO…..I refused to b played by some immature girl when there r thousands of punanies dying to have a dude

        1. Omri says:

          We were friends long b4 d question came up…..u knw how it is wen u r a friend of mine don’t u?…so to cut d long story short,yes was d word and time wasn’t wasted…coz she knws wat she wants and isn’t ready to gamble with it….#Fact

      1. Omri , kiss her nd tk her out? Yeah it works though. Buh sometyms †ђε̲̣̣̣̥ guy might get a clap after that kiss. S̶̲̥̅̊ø̲̣̣̥ u need 2 be careful †ђε̲̣̣̣̥ kinda gals u go kissing

    11. Mz Bonn says:

      As ur frend says “life dosen’t hav 2 b so difficult” so y waste so much time…….dosen’t also mean u shud luk desperate

    12. izzy says:

      I believe dat once a gal knows wat she wants and has seen it in d guy who’s asking her out, no longer than one month is okay for d initial fronting which is also time enough for learning more abt d person, xcept of cos, d guy has some suspicious air around him dat u need to clarify, then d timing can be extended…. But during dis time it wld nt b called Fronting anymore but Investigation … All ye FBI chicks

    13. iamthedemigoddess says:

      Hmm! Hian! Anyway, I don’t have the patience for fronting especially when the guy is sumptuous! It’s not about being cheap. It’s about enjoying life’s goodies! Doesn’t mean I will jump into the relationship immediately oo! Fronting is necessary for self respect but too much of it ain’t my style! Go for that hot dude and kiss those pink lips! #

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