Hmmmmm…………….. it’s been like over 3 months I sat down to write anything….. Thanks to school stress, and most especially psychiatry posting… It was a funny one, being with the mentally ill and all. To think I kind of lost interest in writing for this long, that’s one major sign of depression, who knows how many more you’ll find if I’m clerked…*smiles* I’ve really missed doing this, and I hope you all missed me too…. if not…………… *comments reserved*
Now to the topic of the day, what really attracts you to the opposite sex? It’s something I’ve not really sat down to think about, and I know if I were in a group discussion and the question pops up, i would probably give my usual answer,
‘ I don’t know’ that’s not to say I don’t get attracted but I’ve not really thought to start putting whatever attracts me to words…. #a friend just told me, ‘tee you don’t get attracted joor, don’t deceive your readers’…..lol… but that’s not true now, I just don’t speak of such things often…. I felt hurt, sad, offended…… *but then this is me being all dramatic
When asked this question, what would be your reply? Please don’t say God fearing, i know about that but I don’t think you actually see that they are God fearing at the first glance, some might argue otherwise though….. There could be a lot of things which make you steal that second glance at someone, some say it’s good looks, how beautiful or handsome they are, it’ ll definitely turn your head… is it the same for you?
Black is beauty, goes the popular saying, but then some like them fair or even bleached… *lips sealed*.. What about if they are as tall as the iroko, average height or just petite/brief?? Is it how thick and endowed they are, or if they are as light as a feather?? Someone once said, my gf has to have a flat tummy, and i said to myself, i hope you also meet up with her ideal bf picture.. Are you a sucker for flat belly, gym-ed up bodies etc?
Some like them much older or much younger or even their mates… is it their profession? Doctor, lawyers, nurses, engineers, bankers etc???? Or do they just have that ‘killer smile’??
I’m a sucker for those who dress well…. in short that gets me looking a second time before i look at the face… there is just something about a guy who knows how to combine clothes…*wink* are you with me or not?????????
Should they be ‘currency loaded’, have a motor/car/ride, have a popular name, or just have a connection with the limelight??? I know so many people who would go for this… but then there are some who will say ‘its really not all about the money’ and others who would rather beg the ground to swallow them up than be in the limelight…….
In some cases, what attracts you, may not be the only thing which keeps you, that’s if eventually, you date them… so what makes someone a keeper or to be kept… personally, I think all the caring, God fearing, hardworking, loving, good sex, no sex etc would come into play here…
I definitely can’t exhaust the list of ‘what attracts’ and ‘what keeps’ there would even be those I’ve never even heard of, this is where you come in, just leave a reply and let us have your opinion…